Again I refer to http://craigkohntheaspergerscoach.blogspot.co.il/2015/02/video-four-ways-to-marry-wrong-person.html.
Adding to that there are things besides what was said that you want to look for. Do they treat people with respect? Are they kind to everyone? Are they paitant?
These are good things to find out about someone you are with. In my next post I will tell some really good ways to meet good people.